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Index –› Self Management –› Success Strategies
 

How Your Past Failures Affect Your Future Success

 
Author: Nick Arrizza, M.D.
 

Many "think" that before one can be successful one must experience one's fair share of failures. Is this always true?

Well if you are an individual who is supremely resilient and therefore does not "absorb" the negative emotions and beliefs that come with failure into your mind and body then I suppose failing is at least a sign of your determination to go outside of your comfort zone.

That in itself is a good thing because it reflects your desire to expand your life and your horizons.

For many however expanding one's horizons is not always such a painless process. For instance how many times do you find yourself beating up on yourself for having failed?

How often do you fall into a state of disappointment or despair?

How often do you use your failures to "justify" to yourself how unworthy you are as a person?

How often do you use them to justify how inadequate you are as a person?

How often do you lapse into self pity as a result of a failure?

How often are you flooded and thereby paralyzed by the pain and disappointment of past failures each time you attempt to change your life?

Well I could go on but I won't. The point I'm trying to make is that many individuals become negatively "imprinted" by the emotional effects of the past failures in their lives.

This is because they have in most cases become conditioned to react this way through early life experiences that stem from familial, cultural, social, educational and religious influences.

Is any of this necessary?

Can such conditioning be removed or erased from one's mind and body?

The answers are:

1. Not only is it not necessary, it is not normal! In other words "resilience" to such imprinting is our right as human beings. The fact that such negativity "gets in" at all is a sign that something has gone terribly wrong with our evolution here.

2. All such conditioning can now be completely and irreversibly "erased" from one's mind and body forever. The net result is the ability to feel free to move forward in one's life in a peaceful, calm, excited, energized, creative and purposeful manner. This is what I call being alive! The other state is what I would call "dying"!

The erasing of such conditioning is easily accomplished with a new and powerful personal growth modality that I developed over 10 years ago while helping individuals heal from emotional trauma.

This modality which I call MRP (see my many articles on it here in this ezine) is accessible by telephone to anyone. To experience the freedom and sense of empowerment that it can afford you visit the web link below.

 
 
 

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